If you have teamspeak or ventrilo, you can easily talk to some of the active players that play this game. There are others in this thread that seriously put effort in trying to help you so you may have a better experience of the game.
This game has a tough, yet gradual learning curve. It's actually nice that there aren't too many plateaus like you would find in other games. If you put forth a solid effort to try to get good at this game (which includes understanding stats/build making, roles on the battlefield, and working with other groups of players), you can learn to understand the amount of options you have available even as a new player.
EDIT: If you feel as though you messed up your build, you are free to respec your skip the fun character once a week, and you can freely respec your other characters for half of your current experience.
I urge you to check the beginner's forums that have guides for builds and the basics of how to play at the game. You are also free to ask any question concerning gameplay or interface.