I play on EU4 Leshma...and Im older than you....
True, there are some bad times, but my ram is old so I cannot play on EU1 when its like 100 players or more, so I lurk in 4 like a troll...
And I fucking love it. I love it when my teammate wont attack enemy cause they are "friends" (sure this makes you rage at the time, but it pays off when get the same in reverse, an enemy not shooting you when he could, cause hes your friend and your are being ganked already), the "highskill" players arrive and spam their greatswords untill some utter nutter with a 12 PT stone takes them down and makes them GTX, and many other funny things happen all day long. Maybe it isnt hardcore gank to the last man battle like EU1 sometimes, but it is a well liked server by us that play there, and there can be no bannerbalance ownership there. You always get a uplock "salute" off your teammates after you win a skirmish, most ppl are friendly or banter in good nature, and almost all ragepolls are quickly downvoted.
Maybe your right, and the club of "guys who play for fun not multi's" server should be removed, but some of us would miss it. Just cause we gang up on you and gank you when your there doesnt mean it's a bad server, we play there, its usually small enough that you dont have to wait till flags each round, we like smallscale battles, or hardware doesnt allow us to spend all our time in the large servers.