Heavy lance for my main cavalry char... derp. It's slower than other lances, however it's range and damage MORE than make up for that. On foot I've been experimenting with warspear vs. short spear. Warspear does alot more damage, but shortened spear is much faster.
I do not suggest you heirloom the shortened spear Sean. Yes, it is fast, but I find it doesn't do nearly enough damage. It's also really...short. I have yet to try out the regular spear, but perhaps it will be a good compromise between short spear and warspear.
My archer/1hand (0wpf in 1hand weapons atm....) uses whatever 1h weapons look cool. It's not like I can survive a fight with 0wpf in any melee weapons, so I just pick cool things like the pick, light one handed ax, italian sword, and stick.