I love how we all are (rightfully) screaming about the Patriot act or SOPA, yet somehow doing the exact same thing ourselves isn't a problem.
Really? Patriot act?
Well, you are totally right about the part where this never was a democracy and I will under no circumstances define this rule in a way where people start exploiting possible loopholes.
If there is a dispute between both trade partners and they can not agree on something we will judge the cases individually.
And yes we will decide on what we think is the right thing.
This rule is there to prevent people from ruining other people's game experience.
So instead of common sense just ask yourself: "Would I want to be on the other side of that trade?"
If the answer is no - don't do it.
Smart trading is fine and if you can make money with honest trades on the market there is no problem at all.
I'm fine with this rule personally, I just don't like the fact that nobody points out the problems that can and will emerge when we will have borderline cases. Let's say I fucked up the item selection, and sold my +3 heavy lance instead of my +3 KAS, but for the KAS price. Determining wether I actually got scammed is hard because it depends on the relative value of the HL and KAS.
This is a case where that rules does not apply since it's in no way obvious for your trade partner that you made a mistake.
A "confirmation" option to be added to the seller side would solve this problem and also facilitate trading by eliminating the need of intermediate items and allowing people to choose specific buyers...
This I totally agree on.
Not sure it's gonna be added though.