you do obviously
No...
I care about Xant caring about what we talk about like there is an unwritten rule that "if you talk to chicks on the internetz you is X."
I don't care about guys discussing who is hotter and making stupid jokes about Vic or Anwyl (Xant obviously cares about this though on how random guys joke with random girls on the interwebs CUZ IT IS SERIOUS BIZ... This is our lives?).
There is a difference.
The post was me giving a shit about Xant, not me giving a shit about the way I or the rest of the guys choose to talk to some random interesting but untouchable stranger on the internet.