The cRPG community tends to shun new players and has abusive admins on some servers, the community does not foster new players. People who have grinded forever laugh in the face of certain builds. The "skill" (time investment) requirement is huge. Archery isn't really "fun" anymore due to the complete unrealistic speed of arrows (Paul is full of shit), crossbow reload times are long and often don't pay off even with an arby build, tin cans taking quite a few bolts to take down. Manual blocking is often a case of lag, specific mouse precision, and the proper build/weapon. Learning to manual block requires hundreds of hours in a duel server doing grueling practice with no rewards, and players will often go right through your block due to latency issues, even with pings under 150. Upkeep costs on certain builds are extremely high and only support players with plenty of legacy who have earned their cash long ago.
Unless you're a seasoned veteran or have a masochistic taste for grind or being pigeon holed into certain optimal specs, cRPG is not for you. Native serves as a far better game overall for enjoying the game in a non-nolife manner. I only play cRPG for strategus (and defend the village)