I'm just a little intrigued. I've been seeing a lot of the opinions on this forum as reactionary to SJWs and extreme liberals shouting them down constantly and dubbing the poor posters as racists or bigots for their completely reasonable ideals and arguments. That's been the outrage on this forum for the last few years and ofc with my soft liberal views towards non-radical Islam it's something I've never been subjected to.
But we had that gender thread recently and I found myself agreeing with pretty much everything folk were saying, but there were still the same people saying "You cant say that irl otherwise you'll be called a bigot" and I'm just there thinking "err... I never got that memo and have been making these arguments constantly irl and it's always been fine".
Ofc I cant tell how those posters attempt to put forwards their viewpoints irl, only how they do it online. I've never had to live in fear of making arguments irl, so it fascinates me. Before I assumed it was because my 'liberal' views on Islam were not dangerous enough, but according to this forum my view on the gender spectrum is just as 'bigoted'. Just makes me wonder, and as usual evaluate the picture painted by this forum. Can I borrow one of your opinions for a day and have it in public? Ofc we all live in different places, different social circles, different workplaces etc.
Discussing things IRL is a bit of a different story, i like talking about politics but most do not and so i try to stay away from it as a subject with friends and family etc. Many collegues have shared similar opinions with me though, and i am seeing how they are unfortunately gradually becoming hostile towards immigrants, probably because they are bottling up their opinions. You can clearly see the racist stamp being flinged out by media, social media and politicians. I think the efforts to censor and constantly flame the "racist party" in turn create hostility because people feel they are not properly represented.
When i have spoken to my family about it though, the have usually been afraid to agree or consider immigration politics as something that may not be very beneficial to Sweden in the way its being handled. But after a bit they do speak out and share similar views, almost as if they have realised they can speak of it safely with me.