Got married 3 weeks ago.  Spent the 2 weeks before that working on the wedding (so no playing).  Week long honeymoon after the wedding.  Returned and SSD had fried from power surge.  Got a new one.  Finally got Windows, M&B, and cRPG installed.  Was surprised myself to see so few folks on the two times I've played since.
Congrats  

lags been mostly gone recently 
Lag is gonne since we can reboot the servers weekly.