If this is the case then you're a leecher.
What is a leecher? Someone who logs in the server with minimal equipment and goes afk with the purpose of gaining gold and xp without doing any work.
Getting up to use the washroom, get something, or get a book off the top shelf for the wife and then returning to the computer is not being a leecher, it is being human.
We should remove this feature and let admins decide who to kick.
OR, we should have the servers auto-kick someone who is not active for a while.
There has to be a better way. I've suggested having a 5 or 10 sec countdown to warn those that missed the first purple message. All these suggestions would be an improvement over the current system, i believe!