I'm not going to pretend that the builds I end up using are objectively good, but I like them.
My main's level 36 at 33-15. Maxed PS, WM, Ath of course, with 2 shield. No IF. I would only recommend silly min-max builds like this if you do have +3 armour and gloves. You're gonna need some looms to take up the slack of missing IF. Still, the massive strength stack does give you good HP.
At level 35 I'd put in 30-15 with IF.
I use these two builds for all my foot polearm play. The absolute best is using the +3 longspear with 11 PS on my main. People become absolutely enraged at the sight of my slender, elongated shaft and come right the fuck at me. I press E and take half their HP with a hit. Obviously, they're not at all a fan of that so they rush me again and I jump-stab abuse for the kill.
Fucking ambrosia.