You're not a bad admin but I think you take your duty a bit too seriously, in the light of current evens (dead mod, dead kickstarter, pretty much dead everything about this community and game/mod). DTV is something I like to play but due to changes can't bother really because it has been ruined so much that only map where server is still full is that castle map. Can't blame the players who act silly on that server when most of the time it is half empty and people are there for shits and giggles.
Ever since the stock maps are back on the server is full more often again.
But yeah, the mod is incredibly empty compared to a few months ago.
Not banning people will not help though. Well let me rephrase: Not banning anybody.
I agree that bans are the last resort. But some people just do not understand simple warnings. They need time off cRPG to think about their behavior.
Everybody is a twat every now and then. No problem with that, but there are certain people who are a twat 99% of the time, and only very occasionally are not a pain in the arse.
These people need a day or so off to think about how they should behave ingame and towards other people.