I obviously ran into the wrong admins.. I show love for both servers, but it seems neither also shows little tolerance for trash talk.
Calling someone a "my old friend" is ok, but when you insult a persons country everyone starts flaming. I've seen this on several occassions.. an EU player calling Americans "my old friends" (or visa versa) and the whole server rages. Yet some of the time its the person native to the server that starts it, and the out of country guest there only does what any other person so, which is insult them back. (not always the best route)..
I've had this happen many time to me aswell, like when someone insults Russia, which has been many times since many still feel a deep hatred for Russia... =/
As well as the same circumstances in EU, less often since I go there a bit less often though.