Thanks for your input diggelz. So it seems the huscarl is my most viable option. If i'm using spear+sheild and sword + sheild when is the time to switch between the two, or to use just the pole arm 2handed? pretty new to this game so please, bear with me lol
huscarl is not a very good option either, specially for a beginner...TOO SLOW. Like I said, try a fast shield, 90 or faster. Your shield doesnt need to be as tough because you can use your spear to ward off would be attackers, they'll have to keep their distance more.
Try the elite cav out for a week. If you absolutely have to have a big shield, try round or heavy round. Stay away from kites, as they have poor melee coverage.
Blunt or pierce is a better option since the people that are going to be getting in your face are heavily armored. Cut does little damage to anyone in plate armor. Blunt is a great support weapon as well, as you have about a 25% chance to knock enemy down and allow allies to beat on them and you get a second free shot, which can knock them down as again! vicious cycle 4tw.
In my experience the best time to switch weapons...
against a shorter weapon, jump backwards and switch weapons in air...press block immediately (another reason why fast shield is important)
if you are getting face hugged by a 2h'er, wait til they miss an overhead or if they thrust attack into shield
I wouldnt bother using spear in 2h mode as a new player unless...
you are fighting off cavalry. If they hit you, your dead anyways. Using polearm in 2h mode means its going to pull back and stab quicker.
if your team has guaranteed victory, try a little 2h stabbing remaining enemies and blocking manually.