I don't think this patch is bad but, I kind of like it but I really don't care so much if we win or lose like I did before. If I don't like the map I spend 10-15 minutes doing other things until its done and I get xp/gold regardless ...
Heck I did that back in July when I had 150 ping at best. Before I got into decent gear I quickly realized that I was cannon fodder at best and would log on and run into the cluster of dead bodies and make a half hearted attempt to stab someone with a butchering knife. After having my head taken off by a scythe or some stupid merc
I would go back to reading a book or watching TV. And I used to be in the top ten
The patch changed nothing in that regard
On a side note, once I got good armor (lamellar vest) I actually started to play but peasant stage was hopeless with high ping and sucky stats.
And if the game doesn't feel the same with your old character (I had the same problem) just start a new one. As everyone has noted grinding isn't really all that hard anymore. Took a lvl 6 character and hit 23 in a single day and still had time to go to the beach that day. The only thing that you can't do that you could do before was play every round in plate on an armored horse, but do you really miss that? I only did that on EU becuase of sucky ping. On the NA server I happily ran around in heraldric mail on a saranid horse.