Thank you guys very much!
I consider(ed) myself a pretty okay horseman, used to roll with a MnG cavalry clan and I did lots of horse-combat in PW-mod and native. I don't think the maneuvring won't be a big problem.
Right now I got a rouncey just because I wanted to start right away, but I will get myself a courser soon.
I got some funds from my old characters so I think I'll get the lance (using the great lance atm).
So concerning swords I should stick to the Arabian swords, the elite scimitar and the Italian sword? (I even got an Italian from an old shielder

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What are your preferred styles of armor and shield? Talking about weight etc.
I think I will just get a set like this : Courser, light armor, lance, sword, shield
and Eastern Warhorse, heavy armor, sword, shield.
Should I just not take a lance at all with a heavier charger set? Alternatives?
Thanks again!
Cheers
PS : I'm going for an eastern theme, the Chinese armors etc (They're Chinese right?)