If you're moving away from the rider you can still have couch glances, at least with the heavy lance, and if you're wearing reasonably heavy armour.
I find the difference between great lance and heavy lance big.
Couch lancing with the heavy lance is shit compared to the great lance, which always does lots of damage.
When the great lance was 71p yes, have you tried it now that it's in the mid 40s for pierce damage? Guessing it will 1 shot a lot less (even with the great lance at 71p I wouldn't always 1 hit kill people, even with a neutral speed bonus, or slightly positive). But then again I only great lanced in strategus where everyone has 60-70 armor.
they buffed couches in general and nerfed the only couchable lances a bit i dont understand your problem a couch from a heavy lance glanced at me once so it is fine this change
Have a freaking Fabio duck with hair in the wind and shit. Ducks don't have long hair and ducks don't stair at things majestically in the wind.