Is that good?
Level 30 (4 420 577 xp)
Strength: 18
Agility: 18
Hit points: 59
Skills to attributes: 2
Ironflesh: 3
Power Strike: 6
Shield: 5
Athletics: 4
Riding: 5
Horse Archery: 0
Power Draw: 0
Power Throw: 0
Weapon Master: 6
One Handed: 135
Two Handed: 1
Polearm: 100
Archery: 1
Crossbow: 1
Throwing: 1
Why would you only want 5/4 riding/athl? They, together with PS, is ALWAYS the ones you want to max out. IF is the last you want to put points in (like a nice bonus if you got extra points). Do yourself a favour and get this 18/18 build instead.
Level 30 (4 420 577 xp)
Strength: 18
Agility: 18
Skills to attributes: 2
Power Strike: 6
Shield: 5
Athletics: 6
Riding: 6
Weapon Master: 6
One Handed: 135
Polearm: 100
With the nice 100 polewpf I also suggest to get a warspear for when you don't want to bring a horse. 1h, warpsear and shield is a very nice combination.
IMHO, the best build is 21/15 unless you want to ride mamluks/plated chargers.
Try this:
Strength: 18
Agility: 18
Hit points: 59
Skills to attributes: 2
Ironflesh: 3
Power Strike: 6
Shield: 4
Athletics: 6
Riding: 6
Weapon master: 4
... That's a 18/18 build...
EDIT: Even though a 18/18 build is best (he wants 1h and pole so he needs as much WM he can get) I went on and made a 21/15 build, just because I'm such a nice guy.
Level 30 (4 420 577 xp)
Strength: 21
Agility: 15
Skills to attributes: 2
Ironflesh: 3
Power Strike: 7
Shield: 4
Athletics: 5
Riding: 5
Weapon Master: 5
One Handed: 135
Polearm: 77
WARNING! Do NOT use a shield and spear on foot! It might go well when you have teammates with you put 77wpf is WAY too little for any dueling! You can EASILY be spammed! But with the right timing and support you might still be able to go hoplite well enough, just remember that switching to the 1h is usually the best option.